12 Ways To Keep Your Wife Happy
If you want to live a happy and peaceful life then you
must learn to keep your wife happy. After 14 years of marriage, I have enough
experience which I can share here with you guys which will help you to keep
your wife happy.
I am not saying I am a perfect husband but this simple
and easy steps helped me to have a better understanding of my wife.
"I have learned that only two things are necessary
to keep one's wife happy. First, let her think she is having her own way. And
second, let her have it." Laydon B.Johnson
So long story
short here are 12 Ways To Keep Your Wife Happy.
1. Helping in Chores.
Believe me, it takes a lot of labor to keep the house
clean and presentable. You can help her with simple chores like doing dishes/
making up the bed/ laundry. Make her fell appreciable, show that you care about
her. Yes forgot the most important thing not to throw your towel on the bed
that is what annoys them the most.
2. Giving a Tight Hug.
Whenever you leave for work or return don't forget to
give her a tight hug no matter even if you had a rough day keep that shit
outside the door that's not her mistake if you did had one. I kiss my wife's
forehead every day that is my way of showing her how special she is for me.
3. Be a good listener.
If you want to be heard by a good listener. What I mean
by that? Listen to what your wife has to say. Women naturally talk a lot try to
listen to what they have to say about things, opinions & thoughts. In this
way, they get a feeling of being heard and will open up their inner thoughts eventually.
4. One hour a day
I know it's quite difficult to find time but everything
is possible if managed properly. We tend to waste more time using phones
watching Netflix then we think we do. Spend at least an hour to talk with your
wife alone on any subject you or he may pick up. I choose to talk after before
we go to bed or just lying ideal we both are relaxed and find it soothing while
we chit chat. Sometimes I feel like I am a gossiper now but anything to see my
wife comfortable.
5. Take a walk.
There are two benefits of doing it No1: You will stay fit and No2: You will
have a new best friend. There is a saying, "A friend in need is a friend
indeed." Whenever a husband is in trouble his wife is the first person who
rushes for his aid. She is your wife, not some maidservant who is there to cook for your all day long
befriend her I bet you will have the best friend of your life. Take her out
for a little walk not every day but at least 2 days a week. We often go for a
small walk-on weekends since we are working professionals.
6. Respect and treat her gently.
I am human and do
get mad on my wife sometimes. He too listens to harsh words from me and I cannot
deny that let me put forth honestly. I often have heated argument with my wife
but I try not to spill out words that would heart her emotionally I try to argue a
little and always think before I speak as much as possible because I know even
she does the same on her side and top it all how important she is for me.
7. Complimenting is a good thing
Everybody likes to behave compliments for the things they
do. It helps boost confidence in the person which further adds to the
quality of work they do. Try to compliment your better half, not for everything
but at least for a few things like whenever she kooks something or wears a new
dress or saree or buys a shirt for you of her choice. If you do it when you have friends or family
around surely that will the nicest thing you could do to her.
8. Apologies and Change.
I don't have to say much about it being a man we always
have to do at some point in time but one
thing you add here is to change, yes whenever you are being confronted for
something apologies that instant and try to avoid repeating it next time. Mind
it women can notice the change immediately. Do it like you mean it makes her feel
special.
9. Opinion Poll
Consider her opinion. I do whenever I am stuck in the middle of
something I do ask for her opinion which my wife gives me honestly and the best
which is in my interest even if I don't like it in the beginning. Remember Neem
is bitter but it does wonders likewise is the case here.
10. Let her Live her Dream
Unlike men women to are ambitious. Women sacrifice a lot
for the family even their carrier ambition. Support her boost her confidence
however you can looking after kids is not just her but your responsibility as
well. Help her to achieve the goal she once left for you if you haven't done it
yet do it today.
11. Trust
It is said when "Trust is lost everything is
lost". Trust is the very foundation of any relationship. Keep your
unwavering trust on her. Stop spying on her show faith in your love. There
nothing in the world that can hurt a woman emotionally but her spying husband.
12. I Love You
Say these magic words every day and I mean every day
believe me this is the best thing you can do for her. There is no perfect time
to say never think just do it.
There is much more, after all, it is quite difficult to win
and rule a women's heart it's an everyday war but the above 12 ways to keep
your wife happy will surely work it's my own personal experience to live a
happy and stress-free married life. So what's stopping start applying it if you
aren't doing a thing.
Also Read: 5 Things Men Want In Relationship
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